i'll spill my secrets to you

i think the two biggest things i've learned since college are these:

one-- you can't make things happen, and things happen when you least expect or even want them to. there is no such thing as good timing, there is only what happens to you and what you decide to do with what you're given. sometime you don't know better, but sometimes you do.

two-- there is no such thing as "when you know, you know." here's the deal: you can think you know, you can have the strong feeling that you know, but the truth is, you'll never be 100% sure. what makes it real, though, is that even if you don't just know, that you're willing to take a chance on it. it's taking that risk that makes it all worth it